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Post by twilightheart on Mar 2, 2005 15:39:40 GMT 2
Here´s your love thread, Dave!  Now you can inform us about your success with the current girl(s)! ;D |
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Post by MaliceGarden on Mar 2, 2005 16:26:41 GMT 2
lol!
if the girls are hot, you could post their pics! ok ok, "ask" for their permission.
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Post by illumina on Mar 2, 2005 17:59:37 GMT 2
And feel free to ask for advice. Our hints might not help you any, but they'll probably give you a laugh, at least!
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Post by MaliceGarden on Mar 2, 2005 18:18:18 GMT 2
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Post by illumina on Mar 2, 2005 18:21:00 GMT 2
Depends on the girl, of course!! ;D
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Post by Southern Troll on Mar 2, 2005 18:40:33 GMT 2
OH!!!! THIS IS IMPURE! ;D  |
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Post by MaliceGarden on Mar 2, 2005 18:53:08 GMT 2
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Post by DaveTheRake on Mar 2, 2005 23:01:36 GMT 2
 Uy, I'm a bit embarassed Anyway thank you very much ;D
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Post by illumina on Mar 3, 2005 0:17:02 GMT 2
 ilumina(it means "shines" in portuguese), what is your type of girl?!  tell me and i get her! with a guarantee stamp, if you want.please, do tell me! Much the same as my kind of guy!! Slim, with long hair. I find brunettes very attractive, but seem strangely drawn to blondes. Only difference is I prefer ladies to be small, and men to be tall. So, what is your kinda man huh?! ;D |
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Post by DaveTheRake on Mar 3, 2005 11:45:44 GMT 2
Well, thnaks very much for opening this thread, I really find it very amusing, although I have sometimes the impression I talk too much about my own and this may be sometimes bad.
About my nymph, well, those of you who knows how I am since a year ago, know that I'm a bit (well, a lot) movable... I mean, I like one girl today and in a couple of days I like another one; hence, you musn't take me too serious in this kind of themes. I work, as I have said many times, in a place where there are a lot of girls, and many of them are veeeery beautiful. So in a way it's normal that I change so much. There always are anyway one of two who I like more and sincerely, as can be one girl which I invited once to a party (she never answer and now acts as if I never asked) or Bea, for example. In fact I sometimes like this girls just for the fun of the chasing, to put some pepper in my life, but I usually have clear in mind that I'll never have anything with those girls. In the case of Bea, well, when the course started she came one day for a book, and I get astonished for how much I liked her, but never thought I was going to like her so much. I don't know anything of her, that's why I keep this more as a joke than take it seriously 'cos surely she'll had a boyfriend, or she doesn't like me at all, or she is just kind to me in return 'cos I'm kind to everybody who comes to loan a book. So summarising, don't take me too much seriously with this affaire; anyway I'll try to follow your advices. This leads to Illumina advices... well, of course I know that of the sense of humour, that's a card I play with when trying to "impress" a lady. I know I have sense of humour, though sometimes it's too black, others too much sarcastic, and others too rude. I can't ask other people to analise us when I talk to her 'cos, though my two work mates knows the theme, I don't talk so much with Bea as to find any sign on her that leads to think she likes me. Well, one step could be that she told me yesterday she was very a bore 'cos she came to loan a lot of books; I told her she wasn't and it was a pleasure for me to see her, and she said that she would come everyday then, and in fact she has come today. Told like that could be a good sign, but I find it very casual. I don't really think she could have put her eye on me, but I've learned that dreaming is cheap and sometimes makes you scape of your reality.
About the theme of doors, I also open the door for everybody, boys and girls, is just a sign of politenes, which I miss very much every morning when I take the train or the underground. Don't really think it could help to impress a girl at all, but if you open the door and have the abbility to start a conversation, it's different. One problem I've got is that it's very difficult for me to start a conversation, I need to be fully sure the person wants to hear me... and even sometimes other people have tried to start a conversation with me but I've failed in keep this conversation on. It's just a matter of self-reliance, I know.
One question I'd like to make you girls, do you show (with your gestures and manners) in any way when you like a boy or girl? I noted yesterday that Bea didn't allowed me to take her library card (it has the picture on one side and the bar-code on the oposite, an d I think that maybe she didn't want me to see the pic), could it mean something in your opinion? That, or related behaviours...
It's been too long since I didn't write this much ;D
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Post by MaliceGarden on Mar 3, 2005 16:41:27 GMT 2
damn! the old dave is back! i've to start putting a space in my busy agenda to read the forum!
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Post by Humppaporo on Mar 3, 2005 19:40:36 GMT 2
I think you really are a nice guy.
It is hard to know if someone likes you, because you always doubt what you see. You'll never know if it is biased by your own thinking.
The only thing I can say about this is...be yourself and be honest.
One day, you'll choose to say what you feel. Be honest. Maybe she doesn't want you, I know it is hard to give up hope, but be honest with her and with your own feelings. It's the only chance you have.
Wish you lots of luck!
Of course she could ask us (board members) for recommendation...;D
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Post by illumina on Mar 3, 2005 20:56:46 GMT 2
Couldn't agree more.
I think how people show when they like someone very much depends on their personality. I become much more shy with someone I like, even more than people in general. I find it very hard to talk to them, and flirting is right out the window - in fact if I'm flirting with someone you can virtually guarantee I _dont'_ fancy them! Interesting, if she _didn't_ want you to see her picture, that does suggest she cares about your opinion of her looks. Have you paid her any compliments on her appearance? See how she reacts.
I think that what you are doing is fine - you have said you like to see her...it's honest, but not too pushy. Thumbs up!
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Post by MaliceGarden on Mar 3, 2005 22:32:39 GMT 2
hmmmmm. so you must like me, since you've never flirted with me. :]
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Post by DaveTheRake on Mar 4, 2005 11:54:54 GMT 2
Thank you very much for your advices and those pretty things you say about me!!!!! The problem (you know I always look for a "but" or a "problem"  is that I don't really know for sure if I behave at the library as I really am. I mean, I don't pretend anything at all but my friends came once, and they felt surprised of the good terms in which I was with everybody; I usually am very shy, but here at work I don't know why but I feel very much sure of myself. Everything I say or do comes from inside me, naturally, I don't force it in anyway, so I supposse I'm like that, but I'm also very surprised of my behaviour, and I'm upset I'm not able of being like that when outside. Hey, it would be great if she could ask you all, although maybe she wouldn't need to ask anything if she reads the forum everything about my intentions would be clear ;D Just joking. About the picture thing, well, it's the impression I had, but maybe she just don't give the card to anyone or something. Usually, people gives you the card, but theres also some people who don't. Of course if she hides the pic, that means that A: she's horrible at the pic B: she, as Ilimuna says, worries about what I or anybody else could think. I still haven't paid any compliment, but I was thinking on doing it, although I preffer to know I can reach the bottom of the pool before diving into; I'm not sure what reaction she could have (let's remember, I don't know if she has a boyfriend, or if she has any interest), that's why I prefer to be slowly andmeasuring my movements; but definitely is something I'll do sooner or later, much more 'cos I really like her smile, the look in her eyes and her pretty face. So it will come. I just wanted to ask for her opinion about the attack against church in The Da VInci Code (at this faculty people is very much catholic and this is something I'm worried about, I suspect she's very much catholic), but it was just a mere excuse to talk a bit and ask for her plans for weekend; here it's usual, you ask whoever what's he/she planning on weekend, so it doesn't carry any trojan message, if you ask in the right moment. The problem, she usually comes around 9.30-10.00, and it's 10.51 and she haven't come, so I don't think she will. We'll wait till next week, although the problem is that we'll have holidays from 18 march to 29 march, and I'll have them from 17... holidays is a great time to ask her to go cinema or something, that's what I did with my last girl, and it worked. Next huge episode, at your home!!!!!!!!!! Thanks!!!!!!!! |
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Now you can inform us about your success with the current girl(s)! ;D
Uy, I'm a bit embarassed 
is that I don't really know for sure if I behave at the library as I really am. I mean, I don't pretend anything at all but my friends came once, and they felt surprised of the good terms in which I was with everybody; I usually am very shy, but here at work I don't know why but I feel very much sure of myself. Everything I say or do comes from inside me, naturally, I don't force it in anyway, so I supposse I'm like that, but I'm also very surprised of my behaviour, and I'm upset I'm not able of being like that when outside.