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Post by MaliceGarden on Feb 3, 2005 17:13:49 GMT 2
hitta: sorry, but i just notest now. i meant that the french are here in Belfat ( :] ).
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Post by Southern Troll on Feb 3, 2005 19:27:31 GMT 2
Eh, you learn german? Oh well... the fact that you now can find houses in german newspapers won`t help you any further, because you can`t pay those houses here in Germany! Good about today... 50 cm snow (probably will be 80 tomorrow morning, as it doesn`t seem to stop snowing) and it`s like in a winter-fairytale... eveything looks mysterious. Bad: still haven`t a website, although I payed money to those guys already 3 months ago. Seems like I really have to do it myself now finally.... wonder if I´ll ever see my money again... That Internet companies are the same sh*t in all parts of world! And i agree with you i can't pay for one house there! Good: I'll going to German classes again! Good or Bad: Tomorrow will be her test! I hope that she will pass! And i hope learn something good today! ;D
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Post by Talyla on Feb 3, 2005 22:22:46 GMT 2
Today's my decision:I think i have to brake with my boyfriend cos i did not meet still a man that would understand and share my preferencies in music! i still did not find a man that would love folk metal and Korpiklaani as i do. I was dating to a boy that likes heavy metal, one was a goth, one playing blues, but that just can't understand my favourite music, so i have nothing to taalk about with that people i'm a bit dissapointed/ My heart will be always belong to folkmetal and to this forum members)))
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Post by twilightheart on Feb 3, 2005 23:36:40 GMT 2
Today's my decision:I think i have to brake with my boyfriend cos i did not meet still a man that would understand and share my preferencies in music! i still did not find a man that would love folk metal and Korpiklaani as i do. I was dating to a boy that likes heavy metal, one was a goth, one playing blues, but that just can't understand my favourite music, so i have nothing to taalk about with that people i'm a bit dissapointed/ My heart will be always belong to folkmetal and to this forum members))) Talyla... sorry, but if you wanna get rid of a man, because he doesn´t have the same taste in music like you, then you don`t love the guy! And then you should really get rid of him (because it´s also no joy for him to have a girlfriend who makes topics like that a reason for leaving him). But you should tell him the truth > you just don`t love him, that`s all! Not having the same taste really is NO reason! (You´ll NEVER find anyone who has the exact same taste like you! No 2 people are 100 % the same! No-where!) It´s just a feeble for yourself... searching for a reason to leave him! (And as your life experience later will tell you anyway: as soon as you honestly THINK about leaving someone, it´s anyway the end of the relation sooner or later, because something in the love has died then and the other one will feel this and the relation will not be the same anymore.) But hey... Dave will be highly enlighted to hear, that you`re single soon and that your heart belongs to the forum members (which includes him)! ;D
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Post by Humppaporo on Feb 4, 2005 0:12:38 GMT 2
wise words, Twy.
But I will add one warning: keep your own taste. listen to others, try to understand, but do not compromise on everything... Be yourself. If you are content with the person you are, you are a lot more apreciated by yourself and by others. (words from someone who has too much experience on this)
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Post by ShamanRunedancer on Feb 4, 2005 11:15:58 GMT 2
My heart will be always belong to folkmetal and to this forum members))) Hey,that`s sweet! I wish you all the best and I hope you will find a boy who casn your your passion for music! Talyla... sorry, but if you wanna get rid of a man, because he doesn´t have the same taste in music like you, then you don`t love the guy! And then you should really get rid of him (because it´s also no joy for him to have a girlfriend who makes topics like that a reason for leaving him). But you should tell him the truth > you just don`t love him, that`s all! Not having the same taste really is NO reason! (You´ll NEVER find anyone who has the exact same taste like you! No 2 people are 100 % the same! No-where!) It´s just a feeble for yourself... searching for a reason to leave him! (And as your life experience later will tell you anyway: as soon as you honestly THINK about leaving someone, it´s anyway the end of the relation sooner or later, because something in the love has died then and the other one will feel this and the relation will not be the same anymore.) I can understand Talyla.I don`t think it`s a pretence of her.If music is so important in your life then it`s normal that you look for a person who shares this passion.And if her boyfriend can`t do it it`s clear that she wants to leave.I also think she doesn`t love him but I understand that different interests can be a reason not to stay in love with someone.Love is explainable. If you are newly in love maybe it`s not so important but this feeling doesn`t stay and then you need similarities to stay together happy.I think that doesn`t mean you have to be the same 100% but you must can share the most important things in your life with your partner. I also couldn`t have a boyfriend who isn`t interested in music cause music is my life!
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Post by ShamanRunedancer on Feb 4, 2005 12:04:31 GMT 2
. Bad: I've had an sprained ankle while playing basketball during the practise this morning. I can't go working, and this is not good to me, I enjoy very much my job. Get well soon!
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Post by twilightheart on Feb 4, 2005 12:15:57 GMT 2
And if her boyfriend can`t do it it`s clear that she wants to leave. If you would drop a cute, pretty, gentle, good guy, because he likes different music... well, do it! Your life, your choice! I definitely wouldn`t judge someone by his music-taste... and especially I would NOT send a fantastic, pretty man away for not liking the same music as me. There´s much more important things on a man, that must fit. I mean, there`s also lots of other hobbies you can share or do together, even if music is the most important in your life. And where`s the problem, when the woman goes to folk concerts sometimes and he goes to f.i. Jazz concerts or whatever. Wouldn´t be any problem for me. And by the way, love also means to let the other one have his own life and hobbies and respect his own personal taste. Makes a man interesting to me, if he is NOT exactly the same like me. Would rather scare me to think, he`s always doing the same as me, going always to the same concerts/ places (whatever) and never does any own things/ projects ... liking only exactly the same things as me > huh, terrible! But I´m only talking about MYSELF.... of course you`re different... for every person other things have priority. For me the priority would be to let freedom and free choice and own opinion to the ones I love (without that they have to be afraid that I leave them for it).
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Post by ShamanRunedancer on Feb 4, 2005 14:45:16 GMT 2
Oh yes,we are all sooo tolerant and can fall in love with a person who is completely different to ourselves... Okay,really...of course I DO let the person that I love his own life and I DO respect his personality.You shouldn`t allege that I do NOT so just because I said in a relationship you need similar interests.The fact I want to share the main-thing in my life with a person I love DOESN`T mean I want to make a copy of myself out of him/her.Everyone has it`s expactations of his partner/friend,nobody-and also not you-can be tolerant indefinitely.It has always reasons why you fall in love with a special person.In my case one of the reasons would be the same taste of music,in your case it`s other things.But because of this you are not more tolerant than me,Talyla and people like us.Every couple needs a lot of similarities otherwise a relationship can`t be happy.I love my freedom and I let my partner and friends their freedom but I need things our friendship/relationship is based on.This has NOTHING to do with intolerance or something like that!!I made the experience that a relationship can`t work if you have totally different interests!
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Post by twilightheart on Feb 4, 2005 15:19:25 GMT 2
Oh yes,we are all sooo tolerant and can fall in love with a person who is completely different to ourselves... Oh well... I can! And by the way, I wasn´t talking about tolerance... I was talking about LOVE. For me love doesn`t need any reasons or pre-conditions... Love is a FEELING, not a "thinking-what`s-best-for-me"! But we`re too different in that, I think... we would NEVER come to a common conclusion here, even if we would discuss a hundret times... but that`s absolutely okay... as I said before: different people, different opinions! (^and that smilie is irony too!)
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Post by ShamanRunedancer on Feb 4, 2005 15:24:40 GMT 2
AMEN!!
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Post by Southern Troll on Feb 4, 2005 16:15:16 GMT 2
BAD: MY HEAD IS ACHING!!!
EXTREME BAD: THE ALCOHOL IS NOT THE CAUSE!
Good: I'll go to Beach!
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Post by Humppaporo on Feb 4, 2005 17:53:39 GMT 2
all the best with your sore head.
Hard to imagine that you can go to the beach right now. Here is 2 degrees, windy and raining, so I would not go.
Walking in a storm is nice, hughe waves, but now...no thanks!
Today, Good: I finally finished 70 photo's for a book about pigeons and send those off to France. If I see another pigeon I am going to scream.
Bad: everyone keeps calling me about a magazine I should have started to make a few days ago...but the pigeons... I don't feel very well either, a cold I think, but who cares, I will survive (I hope)!
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Post by Sethlad on Feb 4, 2005 18:49:46 GMT 2
good,BRILLIANT, OUTSTANDING: I just got promoted. not so good: I still don't know how much my raise is gonna be. even worse: I'm not even sure I will have a raise or just increased responsability... still good: I heard great compliments about my work. I'm in a general good mood, and a raise would come in VERY handy. But alas, I'll only know in March.
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Post by Humppaporo on Feb 4, 2005 19:41:57 GMT 2
Sethlad: congratulations! Although you're not sure about the money, it must feel great to hear that people think you're doing a great job! What is your job anyway? suggestion: nice celebration tonight?!
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