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Post by kuusuru on Jan 5, 2010 5:21:42 GMT 2
I also need to get into exercising again, preferably that dumbbell exercise we've talked about (still planning on getting back to you on that, I haven't forgotten. ). Do it dude. Good for the body, good for the mind
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Crystiannia
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Post by Crystiannia on Feb 15, 2010 5:02:31 GMT 2
All is silent on the love & friendship front?
Hmmm....
Not certain if that is good or bad?
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Post by Deleted on Feb 16, 2010 20:26:36 GMT 2
All is silent on the love & friendship front? Hmmm.... Not certain if that is good or bad? Sssshhh...the silence means that the armies are preparing soon to attack! ;D
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Post by bielasova on Feb 16, 2010 20:34:19 GMT 2
Sssshhh...the silence means that the armies are preparing soon to attack! ;D The image I just got in my head was too funny! An army of little cupids sitting in tent camps sharpening their little heart shaped spear heads preparing for battle!!! ;D
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Post by Deleted on Feb 17, 2010 0:11:28 GMT 2
Sssshh....who told you to say they're coming? ;D
that'd be the greatest attack ever,hahaha...
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Post by Crystiannia on Feb 18, 2010 4:54:28 GMT 2
bielasova: That image reminds me of the tv show "Hercules" from years back. There was an episode where Cupid was evil and the god of war! Now I can just see a bunch of pissed off cherub-like muscle men in short togas marauding on a battle field!
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Post by Volk on Feb 18, 2010 16:13:30 GMT 2
Wow Hercules! That is old! Xena was better though ^^ As for love and friendship - I hope it's not the calm before the storm we're dealing with here
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Post by bielasova on Feb 18, 2010 17:30:49 GMT 2
@ Crys- I know the show you're talking about... LOL! that makes it even funnier!
(hey btw- Im outside Philly, we're not that far from each other!)
@ Volk- I know what you mean! *runs and hides behind her shield*
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Post by Savi on Feb 20, 2010 20:51:40 GMT 2
Well folks I have a very big problem with boys. Well since I´m a happy single after two years of my realationship, I can concentrate on important things like school and familie and so on. But now there are too many boys who want ta start a relationship together with me. About 7 or 9 guys already. I´m not arrogant or something and I´m not that beautiful I think, but it´s a real problem to have so many admirer :/ Also some of my old lovers say that they regret the failed relationship in the past and that I´m the best person in the world to be together with.
I don´t want a man to buy me the things I would like to have! Money is unimportant, and I don´t want to have a man who has no plans for his future and even has no job. What a sick situation, some people don´t even get the chance to have a realtionship and I could have 8
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Post by bielasova on Feb 21, 2010 14:48:57 GMT 2
Well folks I have a very big problem with boys. Well since I´m a happy single after two years of my realationship, I can concentrate on important things like school and familie and so on. But now there are too many boys who want ta start a relationship together with me. About 7 or 9 guys already. I´m not arrogant or something and I´m not that beautiful I think, but it´s a real problem to have so many admirer :/ Also some of my old lovers say that they regret the failed relationship in the past and that I´m the best person in the world to be together with. I don´t want a man to buy me the things I would like to have! Money is unimportant, and I don´t want to have a man who has no plans for his future and even has no job. What a sick situation, some people don´t even get the chance to have a realtionship and I could have 8 seems like it always happens as "all" or "nothing" doesnt it! Just stick to your ground for now and enjoy being you. Im a firm believer in not working backwards so to speak. (I never get back together with an ex- it ends the same way). Just enjoy the special feeling and be honest and open with each of them, that you're not interested in a relationship right now. *HUGS*
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Post by Savi on Feb 21, 2010 22:13:52 GMT 2
seems like it always happens as "all" or "nothing" doesnt it! Just stick to your ground for now and enjoy being you. Im a firm believer in not working backwards so to speak. (I never get back together with an ex- it ends the same way). Just enjoy the special feeling and be honest and open with each of them, that you're not interested in a relationship right now. *HUGS* Yeah I think you´re right. I don´t want to start a relationship with my ex friend and today I told him. He said that he yould understand my decision. Great maybe I just have to wait to see who is the " perfect" guy for me. Even if there is nobody perfect. Thank you bielasova
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Post by Kirki on Mar 4, 2010 17:30:42 GMT 2
Well, aren't in fucking turmoil at the moment...-_-
Someone who I was getting very close to at the end of last summer before uni told me yesterday they have been 'cheating'. Lest you judge, I shall give some more information.
Sort of October 2009, she told me some terrible things, which she endeavoured to sort out simply because of me. But, for some reason, when I came back for christmas, I went all weird and neglectful. I don't know why, but I did. It wasn't like I was purposely nasty, I just didn't really bother. We practically lost touch in January/early Feb, until she was even telling me one morning that "it's not like we're together anymore" (not that we ever 'officially' were).
Either way, all this time, she was 'seeing' (not 'with', if you get my drift) someone else. I saw her saturday and was majorly happy until she started ignoring me and going quiet. I finally confronted her properly about it yesterday night and she revealed all. Why I ask?
Me: Do you love me?
her: always have. But you don't, so that's fucked.
Me: No, you are wrong. I do.
I told her as sincerely I could. Perhaps my neglecting led her to seek some sort of fake 'love' elsewhere? (she has told me she did that before we were even getting close because she was so upset about me not loving her back)
At the end of it all, I completely forgave her. I don't know how she took that. I think she was expecting me to hate her and got all prepared for being hated...but I forgave her. However, she, as far as I know, hasn't forgiven herself yet. That is what I am waiting on. Here's hoping she can forgive herself... :s
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Post by Salamandra on Mar 9, 2010 21:37:02 GMT 2
Hm. Interesting. There are some people though, both men and women, that in their effort to get out of a relationship for whatever personal reasons, they will facilitate the other part of the relationship (in this situation, you), into being the "good guy" and thusly justify ending the relationship.
Why? I have no idea. Maybe she's afraid you'll go into your neglecting streak again. Maybe she thinks that you stayed with her just because she didn't give you a reason not to, so she tried to provide you with one.
I hope I make sense, but best of luck to both of you anyway.
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Post by Kirki on Mar 11, 2010 20:08:45 GMT 2
Cheers! I am feeling a lot better in myself. Obviously, we have a long way to go, but at least we're starting to go there : )
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Post by Deleted on Apr 26, 2010 18:30:43 GMT 2
Had a lot of good experiences on friendship front. The latest though are so nice, that I want to mention them here. First: I am so pleased I convinced two friends who are very proud and hardly take musical suggestions in account to listen music I like. I know they did that for my sake,but it turned that..today when one of them gave me a lift home, was playing Orphaned Land in the car! Twas so unexpected considering normally he wouldn't play or enjoy that music! So great I contributed to that change. And the other one has started to talk like me about Negura Bunget, calling them ,national treasure,etc,etc",though he never payed attention to them before. ;D And secondly, I had a pleasant surprise today receiving an unexpected nice postcard from another friend. And that keeps spirits high..
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